Be Our Valentine - 10 Years of Family Tradition

Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this,

To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction...

James 1:27

Ten years ago my family started a wonderful tradition that has gone on to bless many people in our area, ourselves included.  It all started through the kindness shown to us by a kind elderly lady who lived next door.

Mary Jones - the Lady Next Door

Mary Jones did as much for our family as she was able, which mainly included bringing us baked goods - cakes, pies, and other treats.  So when her husband, Ken, passed away we desired to do something for her.  What our family decided upon was to host a dinner for her and her other friends who are widows for Valentine's Day.

It was a most joyful experience and we knew we had to do it the following year, but this time we invited all of the widows in our area.  This is a lot more than simply informing them of the dinner and asking them to come.  We go to the lady's home a few weeks beforehand and visit with them.  It is more than a dinner, but it is making new friends, making friends with people that may not have many friends or get much time to talk.

At the dinner party itself there is a program that our family does for the women in attendance.  Myself and all of my siblings share a talent, whether it be with the piano, guitar, artwork, story-telling or something else.  Being the 10th year of this tradition (a full decade!) we did more than ever before, and I wrote a special song for the occasion:

I still remember the lady who lived next door to us

She had a charm and beauty that radiated more than anyone's

Our family desired to return her kindness in some way

10 years ago the least that we could do was say:

Won't you be our Valentine?

Be with us on this special night

No need to be alone

Come on to our home

Be our Valentine

What a joy it was to spend the night with all of our lovely guests

Dinner and games with Mary Jones and her friends

The following year invitations went out to everyone

Who were alone on a day that celebrated having fun

Won't you be our Valentine?

Be with us on this special night

No need to be alone

Come on to our home

Be our Valentine

Over the years the numbers seem to grow on us

Making new friends, meeting old ones, and sharing our love

We hope you enjoy the time spent with us today

There's just one last thing that we would all like to say:

Won't you be our Valentine?

Be with us on this special night

No need to be alone

Come on to our home

Be our Valentine

It is a wonderful occasion for all of us present.  The wonderful ladies get a nice night out with other people in a similar situation, and we get to experience the joy that only comes from helping others.